Back in the 1800’s kids grew up early – really early – because they had to. Five and six-year olds were out, working on the farm. They might be gathering beans or picking up sticks. By the time they were sixteen they might very well be off starting their own farm or even starting their own family. Jack Daniels, who started the now-famous Jack Daniel’s distillery in Lynchburg, Tennessee in the mid 1800’s, started his operations when he was about 20. Laura Ingalls Wilder started teaching school at the age of 16.
It seems like children have always been eager to grow up and strike out on their own. Teenagers can’t wait until the day they can drive. Then the day they have their own place. The day they get their first job. Many can’t wait to get out of high school and start their real lives. It is the parents that watch helplessly as their children grow older despite their wishes that they stay 2, or 6, or 10, or 12 a little longer.
Today I heard Avril Lavigne’s new song, Here’s to Never Growing Up, on the radio. It got me thinking about the attitude of some people in the newest generation. While there are many who have struck out on their own and are starting their adult lives, there are more than ever before who have taken up a lifestyle of a perpetual teenager. They are still living at home. Still working little or just working minimal jobs to pay for alcohol and gas money. Perhaps the attitude has changes from wanting to grow up and “be one’s own man” to staying a child as long as possible. Before you send in a nasty comment, ask yourself, are you still on your parents’ cell phone plan?
The trouble with not growing up is that eventually you hit a wall and wonder what happened. You wake up at 32, still living at home, and still working lousy jobs. You want a house of your own, but have no ability to make the payment, let alone qualify for a loan. Some of your friends have moved up and are starting to do things like start families, but you are still in the same place, kind of like the episode of Friends where Monica discovers the guy she liked in high school was still living like he was in high school. She had moved on in her life, but he hadn’t.
Even for those on their own, there seems to have always been this attitude of eternal youth that keeps people from saving enough for retirement. As one 29-year old blogger wrote recently, she “did not believe in retirement.” Believe or not, in about 35-40 years she will find that it is difficult to work anymore and want to retire. With no planning, however, she’ll find this very difficult to do.
The thing that’s really a shame about retirement is that it is so easy to plan and save for since you have so long. Ten to fifteen percent of your pay each year into a set of mutual funds is all that is needed. If people would put a 10% contribution for their 401k when they were filling out their employment paperwork the first time they would be set (provided they also didn’t touch their 401k balance as it grew). If you could invest your Social Security contributions in mutual funds, you would be taken care of as well ( if you get to 70, get nothing or next to nothing from Social Security, remember this moment and how you didn’t write to your Congressman to change things, then quit whining). Many people put this off, however, for one reason or another. They then try to save like crazy in their fifties and sixties when it is much more difficult.
There is no reason you need to grow up mentally. As they say, you are only as old as you feel. (Although your body will feel a lot more when you’re fifty than when you’re twenty. As an older friend of mine says, growing old isn’t for the weak.) There are reasons, however, to grow up financially as soon as you can. Start looking for jobs you can do around the house and around the neighborhood at 12. Maybe take a summer job when you’re 16 and start saving up for college. Start investing as well when you’re 16 or younger, sending in money from birthday presents and odd jobs when you can.
Take a summer internship when you are in high school or in college with someone who can teach you about business, perhaps a family friend or a businessman or businesswoman in town you admire. Instead of watching YouTube videos, seek out some financial calculators and see how much money you could have if you save and invest, or how much that dinner will cost you over 10 years on a credit card. Sign up for a stock picking contest or just pick some stocks on your own and see how you do.
Read, read, read and give yourself the financial education that you will never get from high school or college. Read Rich Dad, Poor Dad. Read The Total Money Make-over. Read A Random Walk Down Wall Street. Read the Berkshire Hathaway annual reports. Read The Wall Street Journal and Money Magazine.
Take responsibility for your financial future, because no one else will care as much as you do. Avril Lavigne may sing about not growing up, but she has her royalties to fall back upon. What do you have?
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